Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Hellos and Good-byes


Thursday’s generally revolve around a site visit or survey, but this week Dennis and Aime went to finish up surveys at Shingiro and I got to take some time and go to yoga! Mind you I love yoga in pretty much any shape or form, so when the ladies of Jeanne’s coop invited me to join I was particularly excited! I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect, because all I knew was that a volunteer had trained the guys and girls in how to go about practicing yoga. I was prepared for just about anything (figuring it couldn’t be bikram (or hot yoga) since the weather hasn’t been 96 up here anytime recently), though was classily running on Africa time- 10 minutes late.

Luckily for me, so was the rest of the class. I arrived and changed as some of the girls were lighting tea light candles at the front of the room.

There weren’t incents, but at the end of the practice one of the teachers went around doing massages while we laid there in corpse pose with a lovely scented oil. It was such a relief to finally get some exercise in that stretched me out, and boy did I feel it in my arms the next morning! The thing that most amazed me was that I felt so balanced by comparison to my counterparts in tree pose, and that the actions were so easy to follow as a group even across language and accent barriers. Rather than a soothing soundtrack, the sounds of children yelling and playing outside, a bicycle whizzing by, the fwap-fwap of clothes being de-wrinkled before their attachment to a clothesline and the crackle of a fire out behind the house all provided our au natural soundtrack. The deep vocal breathing we were taught in my first yoga class also came into play as I got to take in the sounds and smells of Rwanda from downward dog.

After the class finished, I met with Sasha about prepping for Uganda and finishing-up some more of the M&E for Rwanda. I definitely have bitten off a lot to chew, but am also very excited for the experience. The first week of August, I will be in Kampala and Mbale figuring out all of the steps needed in order to become a registered NGO in Uganda with legitimate staff and ideally, a place for them to live! With that, I came home from yoga and began my research of expats in Uganda, contacting all those I have met along the way and giving a heads up to my fabulous Baganda family that I would be visiting soon. What I thought would be relatively easy to locate via blogs, NGO databases, etc, has actually been far more fuzzy and challenging. It will clearly be important to be in Mbale with tons of business cards next week! Having said that, there were a few expat hubs and currently I am working through those in order to find possible housing. Time will tell if the website is of any use, but this week will include a few busy Skype days for calling Uganda and firming up plans.

View from City View Top
After a computer filled day, it was nice to have the team visit City View (the restaurant at the top of Equity Bank) in Musanze for a brochette and banana dinner. Sophia, Dennis, Eamon, Sarah and Emily all came. While Sophia and I were the only ones to eat, it was nice to have all of their company as the days Dennis would be around were getting pretty short. Since he was leaving Sunday, we tried to fit in a lot of his favorite places before he left. He wasn’t feeling terribly well (like Sarah and Emily) and so dinner was just not on the agenda for the three of them. We weren’t out too late, but with a day of travel ahead of us all, we weren’t too eager to stay up late anyhow. Friday was meant to be a morning travel to Kigali to get to work once we got there, but as happens so often- that wasn’t in the cards.

The intern team arrived at the bus station around noon after having a particularly lazy morning followed by getting a taxi to take most of the Sarah and Emily’s things to the bus with us to go to Kigali. We got to the station and found that the tickets were sold out until 2! While we often have to wait for the next but, 3 buses in between felt like a lot. I wasn’t sure why it was such a busy day at the bus station, but to kill time, the crew and I went to our little tea shop to watch Grey’s Anatomy, blog, eat omelets and drink up some tea. We passed the two hours in no time (especially when you consider arriving to the bus 30 minutes early in order to get half decent seats. We made our bus without a problem, though I think the tea shop owners may have gotten the impression I was leaving town for good with the girls’ large duffle bags, and you can only try to explain so much in multiple tenses is non-native languages. We were there for the better part of an hour and a half, and happened to run into Jackson (our Rwandese intern). He stayed for a bit to chat, but then had a bus to catch so had to run. We finished watching an episode, and then headed out for ours (which was only a half hour after his). Luckily, the bus ride was uneventful beyond trying the potatoes at a stop the bus makes about 45 minutes out of Kigali. I will definitely be getting off the bus more often at that stop!

The clothes are beautiful but so are the machines!
Kigali is always so warm. As soon as you step off the bus in Kigali with the same bags you got on with in Musanze you realize the temperature difference. On Saturday, however, the weather was relatively mild. We went to get groceries in town at the Nakumat and exchange money at the forex bureau (there are none officially in Musanze- only banks). Nakumat is the Africa equivalent of a Target Greatland or Costco, not in bulk. It has everything! From fresh bread and dishes to baby cribs, appliances and clothing, these stores are huge! They have just about everything- just about. Sadly, marshmallows are not one of those things. Our plan for a good by event for Dennis was a s’more making bonfire and good dinner out somewhere. Emily and Sarah were also planning a surprise for their family’s arrival next week and wanted to get supplies. It was a successful trip particularly, because water was so much cheaper there per bottle and I was running low on conditioner (surprising with the lack of showers taken)! We then made our way through some craft stores near the UTC building, because most of the girls had not been there yet. It was certainly fun to go with so many people, and because this was Dennis’ last weekend, he was buying up a storm! The Emily and Sarah were getting their igisoro fix, and I was just enjoying the experience. Shop-keepers love when you come back with even more friends, and that makes them more willing to bargain with you personally. This is true of the market as well, and so when we go to the market and flood the ladies with paper beads orders and dress requests- they love it!
getting in a little work in the morning!
Saturday also brought clothing pick-up at the market. Since you pay after the clothing is made, it is a little nerve wracking until you pick the newly sewn clothing up. I had purchased my fabrics up in Musanze, and brought them with me down south (mostly). When I got there, I found the bead lady that we visit (for her more interesting designs) and fabulously, the clothing was with her!  I was so excited to see what had been made and had my fingers crossed it all fit! I was in luck, because everything was fabulous. The dress looked wonderful, the PJ pants were just the right length and comfort, and the wrap-around skirt turned out fabulously after she added the whole for the tie! I couldn’t have been luckier- no adjustments were needed and I went off with all the new lovely pieces. I couldn’t have been more excited to start wearing them, so you can believe that the PJ pants were put on almost instantly upon reaching Hotel X.

Before going back though, I met up with Meddy. Always such fun to hang-out with, we played igisoro the ‘right way’ for two hours with me losing each and every game (a sad record compared to my record with Dennis’ way of playing). I also got to meet Meddy’s younger brother, which was exciting, but he didn’t speak English to me, so I assume that he doesn’t know it. It’s sad not to be able to communicate with people that are so close to those you know well and include them in your conversations, but again that is just a part of traveling and a challenge to the education systems of Rwanda and the US. Language is an incredibly hard skill to master as you age, and students should be encouraged to learn more sooner. Meddy has been accepted to a school in Toronto for a computer science certificate program, and I hope that he is able to do it and be back near his lovely girlfriend soon!

Mood lighting at the snazzy Zaaffran restaurant
While I have not had any wild Saturday nights, I am pretty glad of that. Dinner was taken at an Indian restaurant near Kimihurura (and therefore Hotel X) called Zaaffran. Ordering at restaurants where the food is unfamiliar and the menu is huge has never been my strongest suit, so I was relieved when Sasha (our resident Indian foodie) stepped up to the describing of different dishes. After receiving some hot towels to clean our hands, we ended-up with naan, palak paneer, a black lentil dish, some chicken and goat, and a belated order recommended by a group of Indians across the room. We had heard a few sizzling plates go out to people, and curiosity got the better of Sasha. The dish was a stuffed paneer dish with peppers, onions and a few other things. All delicious and not too spicy, I loved it! Dennis tried Ugandan Waragi and knocked-back a martini (he must have been feeling those by the end), before settling down with some tonic to finish off the dinner.

Present wrappings find other uses all over the world!
Then it was home to the bonfire, and s’mores (curiosity of Aileen- a longer term intern for Spark that arrived last week). I was a bit sorry to finish off the marshmallows so soon, but perhaps she will get an address here to receive a care package in the future! There were of course the usual disagreements of burning them ‘mallows or golden browning them, but in the end they were all delicious and we each ate one to many without thinking twice! Then we told jokes, stories, and played a modified tri-round charades game. It was fun, and I am glad that we all had such a wonderful last evening with Dennis. I was definitely sad to see my travel buddy go the next morning, but glad that I could help pack and get the last couple of pictures out to him from my camera before he went. 
Had to have one last Igisoro game before departure...



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